
Men Are Like Dry Plants
When we rush to water a very dry plant by sticking it under a faucet, we notice pretty quickly that the life saving water we’re giving it flows right through the dry soil and out the bottom. Unless we soak a plant regularly, filling every empty crevice with water, giving it a reservoir of moisture to hold onto, a plant can’t benefit from the water we pour into it. Without enough of this vital resource, it begins to whither and age prematurely. Similarly, when it comes to sexu


9 Signs Your Partnership Needs a Sex/Intimacy Coach More Than Talk Therapy
9 Signs Your Partnership Needs a Sex/Intimacy Coach More Than Talk Therapy


Reading the Room
Can you read the room? How can you know if you’re reading the room? Can you be absolutely certain you’re reading the room? I was recently gathered with a new group. I sat in silence for what felt like a long time as the others were deep in a conversation that I didn’t feel part of. I sat waiting for the subject to shift. After an hour or so I felt my ability to speak grew cold and my willingness to listen evaporated. I was not the only one sitting silently, arms crossed and d