When we rush to water a very dry plant by sticking it under a faucet, we notice pretty quickly that the life saving water we’re giving it flows right through the dry soil and out the bottom. Unless we soak a plant regularly, filling every empty crevice with water, giving it a reservoir of moisture to hold onto, a plant can’t benefit from the water we pour into it. Without enough of this vital resource, it begins to whither and age prematurely. Similarly, when it comes to sexu

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Can you read the room? How can you know if you’re reading the room? Can you be absolutely certain you’re reading the room? I was recently gathered with a new group. I sat in silence for what felt like a long time as the others were deep in a conversation that I didn’t feel part of. I sat waiting for the subject to shift. After an hour or so I felt my ability to speak grew cold and my willingness to listen evaporated. I was not the only one sitting silently, arms crossed and d