June 9, 2019

I first saw Markus years ago on the train from London.  I was on my way to a week-long mens Tantra retreat.  Markus was impossible to miss.  A thirty year old Nordic god.  Blond hair, light blue eyes. His body layered with slabs of muscle.  As powerfully as he was buil...

November 21, 2018

The warm tropical air swirls around us as we fly across the surface of the Caribbean Sea. Ernesto’s round caramel muscles ripple as he secures the air tanks around the dive boat. I’m trying to be discrete but I can’t keep my eyes off our hunky dive instructor.  The sou...

October 23, 2018

Be A Better Lover Workshop is a pretty strait forward understated littletitle.  It's not Reviving the Ecstatic Pleasure from the Cosmos! because sometimes we just need a few basics.

Don’t we all want to be better at giving and receiving pleasure?  We study and take test...

October 9, 2018

Over the years, I’ve helped lots of friends turn their nipples on.  These friends dubbed me me the Nipple Whisperer because I love to help men connect to their nipples.  Let me show you how in this three hour workshop.

October 5, 2018

Over the past few years, I've been working on a book entitled The Intimacy Room. Here's a new chapter about the tantric principle of Tapas and Spanda.

Tapas and Spanda: The Moment Before The Kiss

Jon is a physical beast of man.  With a furry round belly and pierced nippl...

September 24, 2018

Becoming a multi-orgasmic man is to explore the potential of our sexual selves. For me, it has completely changed the power and expression of my orgasms.  It has empowered my erections as I age.  It has given me access to experiences of pleasure that I never thought po...

May 22, 2018




These three words all point in the same direction.  They conjure up thoughts of physical pleasure certainly, but they also point toward something we all desire:  connection.  Each word speaks to different aspects of the pleasure and connec...

October 26, 2017

Years ago, I went on a few dates with a man named Hector whose kisses were like pesky flies.  He was a great guy, smart and fun with a beautiful body, but his tense lips buzzed around my face.   They seemed to be everywhere at once. I was continually trying to catch ho...

October 7, 2017

The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy. - Jim Rohn 

When we are attracted to someone, we come face to face with our vulnerability.  Before we can connect, we need to risk the possibility of being rejected.  And although we all long...

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