Safe Space Doesn't Exist
This is safe space! I’ve been hearing that term all summer at the various gatherings where I’ve been teaching and it pricks at my ears....
Ejaculation Time Travel
For many men, ejaculation is their primary goal. When we focus primarily on getting to our ejaculation, we time travel. Ever since our...
A.I. vs. Embodied Wisdom
Our world is changing so quickly now! For those who are unaware of the tipping point we are facing in terms of technology, the latest...
Intimacy or Therapy?
When you and your partner are struggling to connect, you first need to talk about it. And with the help of a good therapist, you can get...
Men Are Like Dry Plants
When we rush to water a very dry plant by sticking it under a faucet, we notice pretty quickly that the life saving water we’re giving it...
9 Signs Your Partnership Needs a Sex/Intimacy Coach More Than Talk Therapy
9 Signs Your Partnership Needs a Sex/Intimacy Coach More Than Talk Therapy
Reading the Room
Can you read the room? How can you know if you’re reading the room? Can you be absolutely certain you’re reading the room? I was recently...
Intimacy and Beds
Let’s think about our beds for a moment. We do love our beds but let’s think not just about our beds but our bodies in our beds. To state...
Four Things Sacred Intimates Know
Beauty Everyone is beautiful. This may sound trite, like a meme for your Facebook feed, but no matter what judgment your mind creates...
Love! Valor! Compassion!
Years ago, I was in a fabulous production of Love! Valor! Compassion! I loved that play and everyone in it! An all male cast and all...